Sexual Assault: Date Rape
According to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN), 2 out of every 3 rapes in the U.S. are committed by someone the victim knows. This might be an acquaintance, someone they are on a date with or someone they’ve newly met at a bar or club. But no matter who commits the crime, it’s a serious offense either way. The FBI ranks it as the second most violent crime, only after murder.
RAINN offers a few tips to help you recognize and get out of a potentially dangerous situation:
- Reduce your risk by sticking close to friends. Always make sure your friends know where you are and who you are with.
- In any relationship, you should read signals. If someone is not listening to you, not taking you seriously, or not responding when you say no, you should take that as a sign that they will not respect your wishes.
- If you are out in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, get out as safely as you can. If you have to, lie. Make up an excuse to remove yourself from the situation. Tell them you have to go to the bathroom, or to meet a friend, anything to get yourself out.
The circumstances vary from case to case, but the end result is the same. It doesn’t matter what the victim was wearing or if they were drinking. Rape is rape. It is a very serious crime that can have a long lasting effects on a victim.








